其實(shí)本片是看似有點(diǎn)色，但是挺嚴(yán)肅的探討性的電影。但可惜的是，美國(guó)人的性觀念，距離我們中國(guó)人實(shí)在太遠(yuǎn)了。
不要說同性戀或性派對(duì)，就是看兩個(gè)人剛云雨之后，還要拼命反駁我們沒有愛情，極力否定我對(duì)你有感覺，就讓我不可理解。性，應(yīng)該是兩個(gè)人愛到濃時(shí)，無聲勝有聲的感情升華，那才是美好美妙的，而不是純動(dòng)物性的發(fā)泄。我覺得好萊塢電影總在傳導(dǎo)少年破處還很酷的理念，實(shí)在不可理喻，但又客觀存在。
感覺本片對(duì)性的探討還僅限于表面，從不同人的側(cè)面來表現(xiàn)人對(duì)性、愛的觀點(diǎn)，但只是一種反映缺乏深度的思考。

[歡愉之后].After.Sex.2007.Festival.DVDRiP.XviD-iNTiMiD.avi

中午看了，有徹膚之感，那短暫的快感過后，會(huì)發(fā)生爭(zhēng)吵，不愿去面對(duì)一切的現(xiàn)實(shí)，由來的是更多空洞感，那感覺很嚇人很害怕。

看到verycd上有下載，忍不住重新下下來，又看了一遍。

多好的電影啊。

假如我是教育部長(zhǎng)，一定會(huì)強(qiáng)烈推薦給全國(guó)高校的學(xué)生，作為大學(xué)期間必看電影之一，

看完還要寫心得體會(huì)，開班會(huì)集體討論。



又或者，如果我能遇到機(jī)器貓，

我會(huì)要它用時(shí)間機(jī)器帶我回到上世紀(jì)90年代，

去某個(gè)中學(xué)校園，

找到某個(gè)為超重?zé)溃瑸轶w育考試煩惱，無聊的時(shí)候愛哼一首奇怪的歌的小孩。

我會(huì)告訴他，

喂，小孩，雖然《出路》是一首很酷的歌，可是將來很多很多的問題，

哼歌也解決不了的。

所以我把這張碟給你，當(dāng)你遇到頭疼問題的時(shí)候，你看看這張碟里的電影就好了。



可是，

當(dāng)我和機(jī)器貓飛回21世紀(jì)，

我突然想起來，

糟糕，我忘了送他一臺(tái)電腦了！

"Love is not negotiable.
Love is a guessing game,
and that’s the beauty of it.

There are no guarantees.
It’s like diving into a pool of water
without knowing if its shallow or deep
and sure [yeah] if its shallow you end up
hurt and paralyzed from the neck down,
but if it's deep…
[you know] it's a leap of faith…
its like throwing yourself out there without
any guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.

You know those carnival games,
you know how some of them are really hard to win
and those that are super easy and everyone wins
well… that’s the difference between love and sex
Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize
and no one goes home a loser
and Love is the game that’s really hard to win.
but if you do and you get to take home that
life size stuffed rhinoceros
and it feels a whole lot better than taking
home that little shitty plastic key chain."

What is love? Who can specify it?
Except falling in love at the first sight, does love exist in other forms?
Maybe it's when love exists in other forms that it's so difficult for us to admit or to know that we love the other.

Sex and love are separable, but sex and love are blended
for the people in the stories of this movie. That's why after sex they
argued or talked so much.

The old couple wanted so much to tell their happy and wild sex they had in their younger days to their children, but they were afraid their children wouldn't be able to accpept it. They weren't sure how their children would react to it. We, as children, date, fool around, have sex behind parents. The experiences may be good, or bad. But whether it's good or bad, we want so much to share them with our parents just as the old couple wanted to share with their children. If it's good, we want to share the happiness with them; if it's bad, we wish we could turn to them for company.

But we dare not to tell them. We conceal the experiences we care most from the ones whom we want to confide to most. We and our parents cannot open our hearts to each other. Who should be blamed for this? Why can't we take sex naturally and admit all types of sex? We all hate to be constrained by moral rules and social codes, but they are made by us. Why we human beings torture ourselves?

   注意第一片段里面女主角總結(jié)的好好，愛情不是人人都可以得到的，sex卻很容易滿足。
    把握身邊愛你的人和你愛的人吧