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Phill pregnanted duck eggs Alex in the college had a second amour(not have a word "lovership"). Haley broke up with Dillan（plus an "l"） again. Clare be the boss for a day. And Jey said an ordinary(not "nomal") but powerful sentence like:what makes who we are is not success,is somebody says you can't.We have dignity(or"respect""honor") so we try it and fix it. that's almost whole thing I remember in former(distinguish "former" and "formal") six.I do this for have a skim for this series,and why I use English because the original(not"formal", it means 正式的,what I want to say is 原始的) goal is I want to learn it.

搞不懂為什么到了第七季都還是有人在嫌棄，七季的時間，雖然很短，卻足以培養(yǎng)起我對你的家庭的親近感，每個角色都如親人一般，看著那些精美的劇照陷入品味之中，既感受到了照片的魅力，也仿佛在注視著每一個角色。

看完十季之后第二次刷的時候，才發(fā)現(xiàn)彈幕里有許多人竟然很討厭安迪，不出意外，應(yīng)該是起源于安迪的劈腿，但如果你不是對劈腿有那種絕對否定的情緒，其實故事前面已經(jīng)有很多的鋪墊了呀，足夠為安迪的劈腿作解釋了：女朋友其實一直沒那么喜歡安迪，安迪其實一直都在掙扎于自己猶豫忠誠的性格，這也正是那些老好人惹人討厭之處，包括我也討厭，因為他們不按正常人的情感去做事，而是以一種具有道德感的圣人的方式去行事，還能以圣人般默默忍受，這簡直就是對我們這些凡人心中以牙還牙的人生準則的侮辱和踐踏（開玩笑的，其實他們往往也不是故意的，而是性格使然）?；蛟S這種好人性格正是我們討厭安迪之處，設(shè)想如果安迪一開始就痛快分手而不執(zhí)著于之前一段的感情，自然也就沒有了后面的腳踏兩只船，也就不會陷入好男人和渣男的悖反（這個詞很貼切）之中。

其次，海莉的男友里面，在我看來，安迪是唯一的正常人，也是海莉第一個真正愛上的人。彈幕里也不出意外的有許多人在夸迪倫，我真想把迪倫復制打包送給她們各位，你們好好享用這種莫名其妙如基因自帶般喜歡海莉忠誠的二貨。最后的結(jié)局我雖然也能理解，但畢竟不甘心啊，生活雖然也有許多勉強，但勉強也分層次啊，這個層次也太低了，好歹安迪這個層次啊。

還有那些討厭cam的人，還是先討厭米切爾吧，生活中這cam雖然讓人很煩，但米切爾才是你生活中最惹人厭的那種人。但這不是重點，這部劇難道不正是為了培養(yǎng)我們的共情能力的嗎，否則你跟我說同性戀放在這里是為了什么？不要老是討厭討厭的，想想更多的，更深的。

四 小鴨子

五 假裝認識之Mr詐術(shù) gather around just a circle gather mean is circle

teeny tiny block with teeny tiny thing stood on feelings table to talk

who want flush cake grab cup

七 big house 里的each difference couple world

八 emotional drawer we choose our partners because they represent the unfinished business from our children

As we choose them because they manifest the qualities we wish we had

in doing so in choosing such a challenging partner and working to give them what they need

我們選擇了現(xiàn)在的伴侶是因為 他們代表了童年缺失的部分

我們選擇他們 是因為他們有著我們渴望擁有的品質(zhì)

如此一來 如此的選擇了區(qū)別甚大的伴侶 并努力的給他們提供他們想要的東西

九 our miracle for Christmas

十 Itis a super fun omelet

S01E01: 我們來自不同的世界，但我們彼此相容。愛將我們緊緊相連，共度風風雨雨。我到你的前面，只有一事相許，我的心只屬于你。

We're form different worlds，yet we somehow fit together.Love is what binds us,through fair or stormy weather.I stand before you now with only one agenda .To let you know my heart is yours.

S01E02: 那么，成為好父親的秘訣是什么？有時候事情會如你所愿,有時候則事與愿違，但你要堅持。因為當一切塵埃落地，一個好父親的大部分特征就會自然出現(xiàn)

Okay.The key to being a good dad?Sometimes things work out just the way you want.Sometimes they don't .You gotta hang in there.Because when all is said and done. 90% of being a dad …is just showin up.

S01E03: 不覺得好像伸出手臂就能擁抱全世界嗎？

Doesn't it feel like these arms could go around the world?

S01E04: 你們都極力想護住那些美好的東西

You're reaching out,trying to hold on to something awesome.

S01E06: 我們常常為了深愛我們的人做些稀奇古怪的事，我們對他們?nèi)鲋e，我們?yōu)樗麄內(nèi)鲋e?；蛟S生活中難免坎坷顛簸，但我們總希望他們過得盡善盡美。就像是肩負著最沉重的負擔，但卻是世上最甜蜜的負擔。

We do strange things for the people we love. We lie to them. We lie for them. There may be some bumps along the way. but we never stop wanting the best for them. That's what makes it such a tough job.Kind of the best job in the world.

S01E07： 我們教育孩子說，輸贏無所謂。但平心而論，勝利的感覺好極了，他們在陽光下的那一刻是無與倫比的美麗，。也許每位家長都希望孩子能有這樣的時刻，甚至希望自己也能這樣。有時我們太苛求結(jié)果，結(jié)果導致許多怨恨和愧疚。怎么才不算過分呢，我的想法是 愧疚總會過去，獎牌才是硬道理。（哈哈哈哈哈哈…）

We tell our kids it doesn't matter if you win or lose .but let's be honest .winning feels pretty great. There's noting like that golden moment in the sun. I think every parent probably wants that for their child .And maybe a little bit for ourselves too. Sometimes we push too hard .And that leads to a lot of resentment and guilt. So,how much is too much? Here's where I come out .Guilt fades ,Hardware is forever .

S01E08: 我太愛你了，但我覺得你可能永遠不會知道

I love you so much, and I feel you just are never gonna know it.

S01E10: 重點是那些已經(jīng)是永不褪色的回憶了，但現(xiàn)在我有絕佳的機會，來和我的新家人去創(chuàng)造我們的新回憶，終有一日這些回憶也會不同尋常。

The point is that those are memories that I'll always have, but now I have the perfect opportunity to create new memories with my family. That are gonna be just as special someday.

每年的這個時候，我們就會經(jīng)常談?wù)搨鹘y(tǒng)。盡管我們深愛著自己的傳統(tǒng)，但有時候我們最美好的回憶，卻來自于最顛覆傳統(tǒng)的時刻。

We talk a lot about tradition this time of year. But as much as we love our traditions,sometimes our best memories come from the times that are the most untraditional.

S01E16：我是說，人不可能事事順心。若事事順心，則要珍惜當下。

I mean, things don't always work out.But you gotta love it when they do.

S01E18: 但是成長的可笑之處就在這里，在多年的時間中，大家都很害怕 標新立異 異于常人。然后，忽然之間，幾乎是一夜之間，大家又都想異于常人。

But this is the funny thing about growing up. For years and years,everybody's desperately afraid to be different,you know, in any way. And then, suddenly,almost overnight,everybody wants to be different.

S01E22：你總是希望能和一個人心有靈犀?？傻筋^來，發(fā)現(xiàn)其實沒那么有默契時，總是有點沮喪。

You wanna believe you're on the same wavelength as someone, and then it's just …it's a little disheartening when you find out you're not.

S02E04: 你要知道我每天醒來，都因為我的生命中有你而心懷感激。

You should know that every day, I wake up very grateful to have you in my life.

S02E18: 人們總會出乎你的意料。你為表象所蒙蔽，看慣了他們?nèi)饲暗囊幻妗Ｒ詾檠垡姙閷崳@時他們就會出其不意，展示出自己深藏不露,不為你所知的復雜內(nèi)心。

People can surprise you. You get used to thinking of them one way, stuck in their roles. They are what they are. And then they do something that shows you，there's all this depth and dimension that you never knew existed.

S02E22：也許我們是因為身邊的人，才成為現(xiàn)在的自己。又或許，我們只是挑中了我們需要的人。不管是怎樣，當你們找到彼此，就應(yīng)該永遠都不放手。

Maybe we are the way we are because of the people we're with. Or maybe we just pick the people we need. However it works, when you find each other,you should never let go.

S03E09: 這個世界上有夢想家，也有現(xiàn)實主義者。你可能會覺得夢想家們喜歡聚在一起，現(xiàn)實主義者又聚成另外的小團體。但是往往，兩者喜歡混搭在一起。其實，夢想家需要現(xiàn)實主義者，提醒他們，不要把夢想放飛得過高。而現(xiàn)實主義者，如果沒有夢想家的話，可能永遠無法將夢想放飛。

There are dreamers and there are realists in this world. You'd think the dreamers would find the dreams, and the realists would find the realists,but more often than not,the opposite is true. You see,the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realists …Well, without the dreamers they might not ever get off the ground.

S04E10: 這就是婚姻的可笑之處。你愛上一個人，卓越優(yōu)秀的人。但隨著時間推移，卻只能看到對方的平凡。

That's the funny thing about marriage. You fall in love with this…extraordinary person. And over time,they begin to seem ordinary.

有時候我不太理解人類，他們因為最傻的原因做出瘋狂的事。他們說服自己無論怎樣都會有好結(jié)果，他們會無視所有相反的證據(jù)。

Sometimes I don't understand people. They do crazy things for the dumbest reasons.They convince themselves it'll all work out…Despite all the evidence to the contrary.

S04E15: 那是最難的一點，不是嗎？當你意識到你無法阻止這個世界傷害他們。

That's the hardest part,isn't it? When you realize you can't stop the world from hurting them.

S05E21: 讓人們見到真實的你是很可怕的一件事，即使是面對你最親的家人亦是如此。但其實我們最不該擔心他們的態(tài)度，因為他們是最不帶偏見愛我們的人。他們會原諒我們的過錯，慶祝我們的不完美，甚至會鼓勵我們盡情展現(xiàn)真實的自己。

It's scary to let people see the real you,even when those people are your own family. But aren't they the ones we should be least worried about, the ones who will love us without judging, who forgives our faults and celebrate our imperfections.

Maybe even encourage us to let our true

selves shine through.

S07E08: 為何我們要選擇與我們相差甚多的人做伴侶？并非命運或機遇，也并非俗話所謂的“心意難為” 。我們選擇了現(xiàn)在的伴侶是因為，他們代表了童年缺失的部分，我們選擇他們，是因為它們有著我們渴望擁有的品質(zhì)。如此一來，如此的選擇了區(qū)別甚大的伴侶。并努力地給他們提供他們想要的東西，我們?yōu)樽约旱某砷L規(guī)劃好了方向。

Why do we choose partners so different from ourselves? It's not fate or chance or cliches like “the heart wants what the heart wants ”. We choose our partners because they represent the unfinished business form our childhood. And we chose them because they manifest the qualities we wish we had. In doing so, in choosing such a challenging partner,and working to give them what they need, we chart a course for our own growth.

S07E22: 有時候你會經(jīng)歷被眾人圍繞著，卻仍然覺得十分孤獨的時刻。你只想回到家人身邊汲取安慰，但有時即使是家人都無法給你這種安慰。因為其實他們也會遭遇和你一樣的孤獨，你只能隱忍地等到這種煎熬結(jié)束，然后你就能好好睡下，希望醒來后是美好的一天。

Sometimes, you have one of those days where you are surrounded by people, but you still feel pretty lonely. All you want to do is go home to the comfort of your family. But sometimes,even your family can't give you that comfort.Because it turns out they've all had one of those days,too. All you can do is wait for days like that be over...so you can go to bed and hope you wake up to a better tomorrow.

第七季第八集，全集最惡心的一集。真的非常愛摩登家庭，但是不懂編劇在想什么。這一集，海利跟Andy約了。海利跟andy在Andy已訂婚的情況下約了。知道對方已訂婚的海利依然跟Andy約了。而且還約了不止一次。怎么會有這么惡心的事情？？？雖然一直覺得海利不是傳統(tǒng)的那種乖乖女，放蕩不羈愛自由，但是當?shù)谌逴K么？Andy跟海利是要做一對渣男賤女咯？編劇究竟在想什么？要把人設(shè)寫成這樣？？

跟彈幕里討論，結(jié)果彈幕里說這樣沒什么？？沒什么？？如果這種事情發(fā)生在你自己身上，你還能覺得沒什么？你的男朋友前腳跟你訂婚，后腳跟別的女人約了，你覺得沒什么？那你很cool哦。如果真的發(fā)生了，也千萬不要哭唧唧，記得今天自己說的話，這樣沒什么。

也有很多朋友說，這就是現(xiàn)實里會發(fā)生的事情啊，所以很寫實。對啊，如果現(xiàn)實生活中發(fā)生這種事情，大家絕對是一片罵聲，所以海利跟Andy這樣做就是不對啊。即使這是劇，這兩個角色也是不OK。別說什么歐美更開放，出軌這種事情放哪個國家哪個人種身上都不能忍好嘛？？

摩登家庭真的是一部很好的電視劇，我自己都刷了不止十遍了。每一個角色大家都喜歡，都有自己的粉絲，可能看劇的時候就會帶著濾鏡去看待角色的行為。但是，劇情編成這樣就是腦子里有屎。同理phil還沒結(jié)婚的時候短暫的腳踏兩條船，jay出差的時候跟同業(yè)約炮。這都是道德錯誤，原則錯誤。電視劇把他表現(xiàn)出來了，很寫實，但無可否認，無論是什么角色，這種行為都非常垃圾。

“Sometime you will have one of those days, where you are surrounded by people but you still feel lonely, all you want to do is go home to the comfort of your family, but sometimes, even your family can’t give you that comfort, bcz it turns out they have all bad one of those days, all u can do is wait for days like that to be over, so you can go to bed and hope you wake up to a better tomorrow”