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Phill pregnanted duck eggs Alex in the college had a second amour(not have a word "lovership"). Haley broke up with Dillan（plus an "l"） again. Clare be the boss for a day. And Jey said an ordinary(not "nomal") but powerful sentence like:what makes who we are is not success,is somebody says you can't.We have dignity(or"respect""honor") so we try it and fix it. that's almost whole thing I remember in former(distinguish "former" and "formal") six.I do this for have a skim for this series,and why I use English because the original(not"formal", it means 正式的,what I want to say is 原始的) goal is I want to learn it.

搞不懂為什么到了第七季都還是有人在嫌棄，七季的時(shí)間，雖然很短，卻足以培養(yǎng)起我對(duì)你的家庭的親近感，每個(gè)角色都如親人一般，看著那些精美的劇照陷入品味之中，既感受到了照片的魅力，也仿佛在注視著每一個(gè)角色。

看完十季之后第二次刷的時(shí)候，才發(fā)現(xiàn)彈幕里有許多人竟然很討厭安迪，不出意外，應(yīng)該是起源于安迪的劈腿，但如果你不是對(duì)劈腿有那種絕對(duì)否定的情緒，其實(shí)故事前面已經(jīng)有很多的鋪墊了呀，足夠?yàn)榘驳系呐茸鹘忉屃耍号笥哑鋵?shí)一直沒那么喜歡安迪，安迪其實(shí)一直都在掙扎于自己猶豫忠誠(chéng)的性格，這也正是那些老好人惹人討厭之處，包括我也討厭，因?yàn)樗麄儾话凑Ｈ说那楦腥プ鍪拢且砸环N具有道德感的圣人的方式去行事，還能以圣人般默默忍受，這簡(jiǎn)直就是對(duì)我們這些凡人心中以牙還牙的人生準(zhǔn)則的侮辱和踐踏（開玩笑的，其實(shí)他們往往也不是故意的，而是性格使然）?；蛟S這種好人性格正是我們討厭安迪之處，設(shè)想如果安迪一開始就痛快分手而不執(zhí)著于之前一段的感情，自然也就沒有了后面的腳踏兩只船，也就不會(huì)陷入好男人和渣男的悖反（這個(gè)詞很貼切）之中。

其次，海莉的男友里面，在我看來(lái)，安迪是唯一的正常人，也是海莉第一個(gè)真正愛上的人。彈幕里也不出意外的有許多人在夸迪倫，我真想把迪倫復(fù)制打包送給她們各位，你們好好享用這種莫名其妙如基因自帶般喜歡海莉忠誠(chéng)的二貨。最后的結(jié)局我雖然也能理解，但畢竟不甘心啊，生活雖然也有許多勉強(qiáng)，但勉強(qiáng)也分層次啊，這個(gè)層次也太低了，好歹安迪這個(gè)層次啊。

還有那些討厭cam的人，還是先討厭米切爾吧，生活中這cam雖然讓人很煩，但米切爾才是你生活中最惹人厭的那種人。但這不是重點(diǎn)，這部劇難道不正是為了培養(yǎng)我們的共情能力的嗎，否則你跟我說(shuō)同性戀放在這里是為了什么？不要老是討厭討厭的，想想更多的，更深的。

四 小鴨子

五 假裝認(rèn)識(shí)之Mr詐術(shù) gather around just a circle gather mean is circle

teeny tiny block with teeny tiny thing stood on feelings table to talk

who want flush cake grab cup

七 big house 里的each difference couple world

八 emotional drawer we choose our partners because they represent the unfinished business from our children

As we choose them because they manifest the qualities we wish we had

in doing so in choosing such a challenging partner and working to give them what they need

我們選擇了現(xiàn)在的伴侶是因?yàn)?他們代表了童年缺失的部分

我們選擇他們 是因?yàn)樗麄冇兄覀兛释麚碛械钠焚|(zhì)

如此一來(lái) 如此的選擇了區(qū)別甚大的伴侶 并努力的給他們提供他們想要的東西

九 our miracle for Christmas

十 Itis a super fun omelet

S01E01: 我們來(lái)自不同的世界，但我們彼此相容。愛將我們緊緊相連，共度風(fēng)風(fēng)雨雨。我到你的前面，只有一事相許，我的心只屬于你。

We're form different worlds，yet we somehow fit together.Love is what binds us,through fair or stormy weather.I stand before you now with only one agenda .To let you know my heart is yours.

S01E02: 那么，成為好父親的秘訣是什么？有時(shí)候事情會(huì)如你所愿,有時(shí)候則事與愿違，但你要堅(jiān)持。因?yàn)楫?dāng)一切塵埃落地，一個(gè)好父親的大部分特征就會(huì)自然出現(xiàn)

Okay.The key to being a good dad?Sometimes things work out just the way you want.Sometimes they don't .You gotta hang in there.Because when all is said and done. 90% of being a dad …is just showin up.

S01E03: 不覺得好像伸出手臂就能擁抱全世界嗎？

Doesn't it feel like these arms could go around the world?

S01E04: 你們都極力想護(hù)住那些美好的東西

You're reaching out,trying to hold on to something awesome.

S01E06: 我們常常為了深愛我們的人做些稀奇古怪的事，我們對(duì)他們?nèi)鲋e，我們?yōu)樗麄內(nèi)鲋e?；蛟S生活中難免坎坷顛簸，但我們總希望他們過得盡善盡美。就像是肩負(fù)著最沉重的負(fù)擔(dān)，但卻是世上最甜蜜的負(fù)擔(dān)。

We do strange things for the people we love. We lie to them. We lie for them. There may be some bumps along the way. but we never stop wanting the best for them. That's what makes it such a tough job.Kind of the best job in the world.

S01E07： 我們教育孩子說(shuō)，輸贏無(wú)所謂。但平心而論，勝利的感覺好極了，他們?cè)陉?yáng)光下的那一刻是無(wú)與倫比的美麗，。也許每位家長(zhǎng)都希望孩子能有這樣的時(shí)刻，甚至希望自己也能這樣。有時(shí)我們太苛求結(jié)果，結(jié)果導(dǎo)致許多怨恨和愧疚。怎么才不算過分呢，我的想法是 愧疚總會(huì)過去，獎(jiǎng)牌才是硬道理。（哈哈哈哈哈哈…）

We tell our kids it doesn't matter if you win or lose .but let's be honest .winning feels pretty great. There's noting like that golden moment in the sun. I think every parent probably wants that for their child .And maybe a little bit for ourselves too. Sometimes we push too hard .And that leads to a lot of resentment and guilt. So,how much is too much? Here's where I come out .Guilt fades ,Hardware is forever .

S01E08: 我太愛你了，但我覺得你可能永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)知道

I love you so much, and I feel you just are never gonna know it.

S01E10: 重點(diǎn)是那些已經(jīng)是永不褪色的回憶了，但現(xiàn)在我有絕佳的機(jī)會(huì)，來(lái)和我的新家人去創(chuàng)造我們的新回憶，終有一日這些回憶也會(huì)不同尋常。

The point is that those are memories that I'll always have, but now I have the perfect opportunity to create new memories with my family. That are gonna be just as special someday.

每年的這個(gè)時(shí)候，我們就會(huì)經(jīng)常談?wù)搨鹘y(tǒng)。盡管我們深愛著自己的傳統(tǒng)，但有時(shí)候我們最美好的回憶，卻來(lái)自于最顛覆傳統(tǒng)的時(shí)刻。

We talk a lot about tradition this time of year. But as much as we love our traditions,sometimes our best memories come from the times that are the most untraditional.

S01E16：我是說(shuō)，人不可能事事順心。若事事順心，則要珍惜當(dāng)下。

I mean, things don't always work out.But you gotta love it when they do.

S01E18: 但是成長(zhǎng)的可笑之處就在這里，在多年的時(shí)間中，大家都很害怕 標(biāo)新立異 異于常人。然后，忽然之間，幾乎是一夜之間，大家又都想異于常人。

But this is the funny thing about growing up. For years and years,everybody's desperately afraid to be different,you know, in any way. And then, suddenly,almost overnight,everybody wants to be different.

S01E22：你總是希望能和一個(gè)人心有靈犀?？傻筋^來(lái)，發(fā)現(xiàn)其實(shí)沒那么有默契時(shí)，總是有點(diǎn)沮喪。

You wanna believe you're on the same wavelength as someone, and then it's just …it's a little disheartening when you find out you're not.

S02E04: 你要知道我每天醒來(lái)，都因?yàn)槲业纳杏心愣膽迅屑ぁ?/p>

You should know that every day, I wake up very grateful to have you in my life.

S02E18: 人們總會(huì)出乎你的意料。你為表象所蒙蔽，看慣了他們?nèi)饲暗囊幻?。以為眼見為?shí)，這時(shí)他們就會(huì)出其不意，展示出自己深藏不露,不為你所知的復(fù)雜內(nèi)心。

People can surprise you. You get used to thinking of them one way, stuck in their roles. They are what they are. And then they do something that shows you，there's all this depth and dimension that you never knew existed.

S02E22：也許我們是因?yàn)樯磉叺娜?，才成為現(xiàn)在的自己。又或許，我們只是挑中了我們需要的人。不管是怎樣，當(dāng)你們找到彼此，就應(yīng)該永遠(yuǎn)都不放手。

Maybe we are the way we are because of the people we're with. Or maybe we just pick the people we need. However it works, when you find each other,you should never let go.

S03E09: 這個(gè)世界上有夢(mèng)想家，也有現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者。你可能會(huì)覺得夢(mèng)想家們喜歡聚在一起，現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者又聚成另外的小團(tuán)體。但是往往，兩者喜歡混搭在一起。其實(shí)，夢(mèng)想家需要現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者，提醒他們，不要把夢(mèng)想放飛得過高。而現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者，如果沒有夢(mèng)想家的話，可能永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法將夢(mèng)想放飛。

There are dreamers and there are realists in this world. You'd think the dreamers would find the dreams, and the realists would find the realists,but more often than not,the opposite is true. You see,the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realists …Well, without the dreamers they might not ever get off the ground.

S04E10: 這就是婚姻的可笑之處。你愛上一個(gè)人，卓越優(yōu)秀的人。但隨著時(shí)間推移，卻只能看到對(duì)方的平凡。

That's the funny thing about marriage. You fall in love with this…extraordinary person. And over time,they begin to seem ordinary.

有時(shí)候我不太理解人類，他們因?yàn)樽钌档脑蜃龀霪偪竦氖?。他們說(shuō)服自己無(wú)論怎樣都會(huì)有好結(jié)果，他們會(huì)無(wú)視所有相反的證據(jù)。

Sometimes I don't understand people. They do crazy things for the dumbest reasons.They convince themselves it'll all work out…Despite all the evidence to the contrary.

S04E15: 那是最難的一點(diǎn)，不是嗎？當(dāng)你意識(shí)到你無(wú)法阻止這個(gè)世界傷害他們。

That's the hardest part,isn't it? When you realize you can't stop the world from hurting them.

S05E21: 讓人們見到真實(shí)的你是很可怕的一件事，即使是面對(duì)你最親的家人亦是如此。但其實(shí)我們最不該擔(dān)心他們的態(tài)度，因?yàn)樗麄兪亲畈粠姁畚覀兊娜?。他們?huì)原諒我們的過錯(cuò)，慶祝我們的不完美，甚至?xí)膭?lì)我們盡情展現(xiàn)真實(shí)的自己。

It's scary to let people see the real you,even when those people are your own family. But aren't they the ones we should be least worried about, the ones who will love us without judging, who forgives our faults and celebrate our imperfections.

Maybe even encourage us to let our true

selves shine through.

S07E08: 為何我們要選擇與我們相差甚多的人做伴侶？并非命運(yùn)或機(jī)遇，也并非俗話所謂的“心意難為” 。我們選擇了現(xiàn)在的伴侶是因?yàn)?，他們代表了童年缺失的部分，我們選擇他們，是因?yàn)樗鼈冇兄覀兛释麚碛械钠焚|(zhì)。如此一來(lái)，如此的選擇了區(qū)別甚大的伴侶。并努力地給他們提供他們想要的東西，我們?yōu)樽约旱某砷L(zhǎng)規(guī)劃好了方向。

Why do we choose partners so different from ourselves? It's not fate or chance or cliches like “the heart wants what the heart wants ”. We choose our partners because they represent the unfinished business form our childhood. And we chose them because they manifest the qualities we wish we had. In doing so, in choosing such a challenging partner,and working to give them what they need, we chart a course for our own growth.

S07E22: 有時(shí)候你會(huì)經(jīng)歷被眾人圍繞著，卻仍然覺得十分孤獨(dú)的時(shí)刻。你只想回到家人身邊汲取安慰，但有時(shí)即使是家人都無(wú)法給你這種安慰。因?yàn)槠鋵?shí)他們也會(huì)遭遇和你一樣的孤獨(dú)，你只能隱忍地等到這種煎熬結(jié)束，然后你就能好好睡下，希望醒來(lái)后是美好的一天。

Sometimes, you have one of those days where you are surrounded by people, but you still feel pretty lonely. All you want to do is go home to the comfort of your family. But sometimes,even your family can't give you that comfort.Because it turns out they've all had one of those days,too. All you can do is wait for days like that be over...so you can go to bed and hope you wake up to a better tomorrow.

第七季第八集，全集最惡心的一集。真的非常愛摩登家庭，但是不懂編劇在想什么。這一集，海利跟Andy約了。海利跟andy在Andy已訂婚的情況下約了。知道對(duì)方已訂婚的海利依然跟Andy約了。而且還約了不止一次。怎么會(huì)有這么惡心的事情？？？雖然一直覺得海利不是傳統(tǒng)的那種乖乖女，放蕩不羈愛自由，但是當(dāng)?shù)谌逴K么？Andy跟海利是要做一對(duì)渣男賤女咯？編劇究竟在想什么？要把人設(shè)寫成這樣？？

跟彈幕里討論，結(jié)果彈幕里說(shuō)這樣沒什么？？沒什么？？如果這種事情發(fā)生在你自己身上，你還能覺得沒什么？你的男朋友前腳跟你訂婚，后腳跟別的女人約了，你覺得沒什么？那你很cool哦。如果真的發(fā)生了，也千萬(wàn)不要哭唧唧，記得今天自己說(shuō)的話，這樣沒什么。

也有很多朋友說(shuō)，這就是現(xiàn)實(shí)里會(huì)發(fā)生的事情啊，所以很寫實(shí)。對(duì)啊，如果現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中發(fā)生這種事情，大家絕對(duì)是一片罵聲，所以海利跟Andy這樣做就是不對(duì)啊。即使這是劇，這兩個(gè)角色也是不OK。別說(shuō)什么歐美更開放，出軌這種事情放哪個(gè)國(guó)家哪個(gè)人種身上都不能忍好嘛？？

摩登家庭真的是一部很好的電視劇，我自己都刷了不止十遍了。每一個(gè)角色大家都喜歡，都有自己的粉絲，可能看劇的時(shí)候就會(huì)帶著濾鏡去看待角色的行為。但是，劇情編成這樣就是腦子里有屎。同理phil還沒結(jié)婚的時(shí)候短暫的腳踏兩條船，jay出差的時(shí)候跟同業(yè)約炮。這都是道德錯(cuò)誤，原則錯(cuò)誤。電視劇把他表現(xiàn)出來(lái)了，很寫實(shí)，但無(wú)可否認(rèn)，無(wú)論是什么角色，這種行為都非常垃圾。

“Sometime you will have one of those days, where you are surrounded by people but you still feel lonely, all you want to do is go home to the comfort of your family, but sometimes, even your family can’t give you that comfort, bcz it turns out they have all bad one of those days, all u can do is wait for days like that to be over, so you can go to bed and hope you wake up to a better tomorrow”